rodox_head wrote:Orbited insanitarium wrote:Thanks for the response rodox, I can connect with a lot of what you’ve said, I was just starting to make friends in my life (joining clubs and that) directly before covid hit, now I’m back to square one, and although there is lots of people around, very few where I am are permanent.
I had a homeless man in my area that I used to talk about music to on a daily basis, he was a big trip-hop & Radiohead fan and that introduced me to UNKLE (a musician) , regular as clockwork I’d come out of the charity shops with CD’s and he’d have a look to see what I’ve bought (to make a general comment or start up a conversation)
He had Aspergers and was quite knowledgable, but after Christmas last year he went away travelling (doing a sort of bucket list) anyway he was a good friend to me and kept me sane during the 1st and 2nd wave with story's about who he’d seen at the glastonbury festival over the years.
Fast forward to now, and I feel like having a day to day schedule helps me get happier, plus the fact that every night at around 9-10pm I listen to an album by an artist I’ve not heard before, I‘ve been doing this since last year and I’d recommend doing it if your anxious and depressed as it helps grow some musical knowledge and keeps you busy.
PS: i like the new profile picture, your obviously a anime fan!
I hear you on the revolving door of people thing, so many coworkers have come and gone leaving the work environment a lot more isolated and dreary, even the convenience store i visit every day for my caffeine fix has gone through so many different people over the past couple years. A major introspective topic for me the past couple years has been abandonment issues, but I suppose that's a topic branch for another thread.
I wish i knew someone like that guy, if anything
I'd be that guy. I tend to give commentary on the music that plays at work over the store speakers, much to nobody's interest. Sometimes I do leave my phone's screen on in the vain hopes that someone might notice the album art and say something. I did manage to get a coworker to buy a few Wall of Voodoo songs though
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Often times at work I just use the shuffle feature for music so it's nice to actually put on a full album sometimes. Blockhead released a new album recently so I've been putting his old stuff on, funny to think when I first got into him he was advertising his 4th album on Myspace
Not sure if I'd call myself an anime "fan", but I like it. I prefer the less "whimsical" or more serious type stuff though. My current av/sig setup is the same one I used on my Silenthillcommunity forum account, which is where I was hiding out the past seven years. Members on that site dwindled over the years until it appears to have finally bitten the dust this year, so it's kind of a tribute to those years. The pictures are illustrations by Yoshitoshi ABe that were used on two of the Serial Experiments Lain albums, the Soundtrack and Cyberia Mix, as well as in the Lain Illustrations artbook which I managed to snag a cheap copy of years ago at a music store. That anime has had a lasting impact on me, even using colorized edits of my avatar to color code my electronic music playlists on Spotify
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There’s a game exchange store (cex) in my town and all they play in there is west coast hip-hop, the guys behind the desk know me and every time I go in they ask me what mad music I’m listening to today. A couple of weeks back i went in and asked if they could play any boards of canada, he said he hadn’t heard of them and asked for a track. I said cold earth so after clicking on his desktop comp, the music blasted out of the speakers, “that’s utter shit, elevator music bollocks” he remarked. I said “Oh well give it a listen in your own free time, I suppose. you might like it”
“nope, who would listen to that?”
“I listen to that!”
“Listen, I like it when you recommend stuff, but that’s crap”
So basically what I mean by telling that conversation is that the day someone recognises one of my favourite artists and is a fan as-well is seeming quite unlikely about now. There was a guy at my local car boot a week ago, and he recognised one of the cd’s I had,
Him - “I have that, Arctic monkeys. great album, how much you pay?”
Me- “50p”
Him - “I’ve got some good ones today”
He took his rucksack off and took out a big pile of albums
Him - “pixies, the smiths”
Me - “good stuff, pixies? Well done you with that 90s grunge”
Him - “I only come for the CD’s”
Me - “same, love a physical copy”
Him - “keep hunting, see you around mate”
That was a discussion where the tastes were alike, I wish there were more people like him around, conversations are what keeps me going, so thanks, random car-booter!
I Hope someone spots the artist(s) in your playlist and strikes a conversation, even if it’s a short one it better than none!