i don't think you're wrong necessarily DP, but I don't think that radio silence constitutes disdain. Silence is silence. It could be friendly or it could be disdainful.
your attitude reminds me of an ex, and an ex-friend, who both ended up freaking out at me and telling me they never wanted anything to do with me again, because I wasn't communicating enough. I didn't respond every time they had a craving. I didn't scratch their ITCH.
But other peoples' itches aren't my responsibility. I'm not a machine. BoC are the same way. Our 'itch' for more music bears NO responsibility on them. They don't have to release a goddamn thing if they don't want to, they can tear up their contract. Forget Warp, forget the label and its obligations. The actual fact of the matter is that they could quit and become oom-pah band aficionados for the rest of their lives if they ever wanted and nobody will have been wronged. They don't have to tell us they've split up. They don't have to tell us shit. They can leave us wondering. If we're too stupid and obsessed to live our lives peacefully and happily without ever having that "closure", then it's our loss and not theirs.
I'm boreal network. if I never released another record in my life, would anyone go "Jesus this guy gets his fans all excited and then takes off, what a douche bag"? Would they really? If so, I want to meet this person, I have lots of overpriced merchandise to sell his gullible ass.
Sometimes I do feel like I'm the only one who feels that -none- of this is guaranteed. No communication, no records, no nothing. They don't -have- to do anything and we don't -deserve- any information about them, any more than you jerks -deserve- to hear the sweaty, fleshy details of how I touched myself this morning, just because I'm a musician, whether I'm as talented and famous as BoC or just some puke on the internet venting his spleen.
Sometimes I do feel like I'm the only one who is just CHILL with whatever happens. Sure, they might release something, I'll be happy if they do. Sure, they might never release anything again. No biggie. I don't give one fresh stinky fuck. If there was never any BoC ever again, I could care less. I like what I've got. I'm happy with it. I'd be happy with new stuff too. Jesus christ people get some goddamn perspective in your lives.




